Ministry Issues
There are two seismic — yet under-the-radar — trends happening in marriage and family today, but too few have taken note of them. Christian leaders are wise to appreciate them, as we seek to minister in this area.
The first is the continued and growing alienation of men from family life. This alienation can be attributed to many things: the male’s own choosing, women and culture’s growing negative and unrealistic attitudes about men, artificial reproductive technology among single women as well as the push for parenting and adoption rights by same-sex couples.
The second is discussed here: The growing marginalization of marriage in Blue-Collar America while it’s doing better among the more educated classes. This has important consequences for the greater cementing of class divides.
And it affects church life. Princeton sociologist of religion Robert Wuthnow, explains in his book After the Baby Boomers that the connection between marital status and church attendance is remarkably parallel. People who marry are more likely to attend church. If they don’t marry, they are not likely to attend. So this social shift is significant in many ways.
A unique and important report has just been released by the Brookings Institute, co-authored by two of the world’s leading marriage scholars: The more socially conservative W. Bradford Wilcox, director of the National Marriage Project and associate professor of Sociology at the University of Virginia, and the socially liberal Andrew J. Cherlin, professor of Sociology and Public Policy at Johns Hopkins University.
Both scholars are concerned about the marked decline of marriage among those who have graduated from high school, but have no college degree. This encompasses a full 58 percent of the adult U.S. population.1
The Evidence
A distinct marriage divide is developing in the following ways among these two social classes:
Given how out-of-wedlock child-bearing, cohabitation and divorce are more likely to prevent adults and their children from advancing socio-economically - while intact marriages boost such advancement - this trend of declining marriage among the working-class should be of great concern to all who care about improving social mobility and living status.
Causes of the Blue-Collar Marriage Decline
While being blue-collar is an economic status, it is not merely economics driving this decline. Professors Wilcox and Cherlin remind us that “there was no dramatic increase in nonmarital childbearing or cohabitation during the Great Depression, when millions of Americans experienced unemployment or underemployment.”3
They explain that other factors are contributing to this working-class retreat from marriage:
Wilcox and Cherlin show how all of these developments have happened more dynamically among the non-college educated than the college educated.
They conclude:
When any class of citizens turns away from marriage, it is not liberating nor empowering.
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1 W. Bradford Wilcox and Andrew J. Cherlin, “The Marginalization of Marriage in Middle America,” Center on Children and Families at Brookings, CCF Brief #46, August 2011, p. 2.
2 W. Bradford Wilcox, “When Marriage Disappears: The New Middle America,” a report from the National Marriage Project , University of Virginia, December 2010, p. ix.
3 Wilcox and Cherlin, 2011, p. 3.
4 Wilcox and Cherlin, 2011, p. 4.
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— Glenn T. Stanton is the director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family and a research fellow at the Institute of Marriage and Family.
According to the September issue of Obstetrics & Gynecology, a new study finds that only 14 percent of doctors are currently willing to do abortions compared to 22 percent in 2008. The research, which was based on a mail survey of 1,800 OBGYNs, also revealed that:
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Several Christ-centered organizations are partnering to eradicate extreme poverty by 2035. The project, called “58”, is led by Scott Todd, a senior adviser at Compassion International, one of the organizations sponsoring the project. Some of the other groups involved are: HOPE International; Christian Reformed World Relief Committee; Living Water International; and Food for the Hungry. The group designed a website to highlight hundreds of organizations that are working to fight poverty.
The project is rooted in the biblical passage of Isaiah 58 where the prophet Isaiah tells the Jews that their fasts are meaningless because they are rooted in greed and desire for personal gain. If they really want the world around them to improve, the prophet tells them, they need to fast for the right reasons — to help those around them and to cleanse themselves of wickedness. [Philanthropy.com]
Life advocates won a victory a couple weeks ago when a state appellate court upheld a 2009 law placing sweeping restrictions on abortion businesses, including a requirement that only medical doctors can provide abortions.
Last week, the first wave of direct effects became clear, when Planned Parenthood announced it will no longer offer abortions at 10 of its 13 statewide clinics because it doesn’t have enough medical doctors to provide abortions. The three clinics that still do abortions are all located in either Phoenix or Tucson. Planned Parenthood has until mid-September to appeal to the Arizona Supreme Court. Deborah Sheasby, legal counsel at the Center for Arizona Policy, which helped draft the law, said, “It’s the standard of care in Arizona for a doctor to be involved in this type of procedure, so they’re not meeting the standard of care.” [CitizenLink.com]
The 5.8 earthquake that struck the East coast this past Tuesday did damage to churches near the quake’s epicenter. The National Cathedral in Northwest Washington D.C. sustained “significant damage,” spokesman Richard Weinberg said. According to Weinberg, capstones tumbled off three of the four spires on the cathedral’s central tower, the highest point in Washington, D.C. Other stones shaken loose by the quake tumbled onto the grass outside. About 200 people were inside the cathedral at the time. Weinberg said that repairing the spires and other damage will “definitely involve a lot of work.” Elsewhere, witnesses said a portion of the steeple at St. Thomas the Apostle Church in Wilmington, Del., crumbled into a pile of stones outside the church. [13WMAZ.com]
Ever feel like you need to wear a mask to cover up who you are? Are you concerned that, if people knew who you really are and how you really felt, they wouldn't understand?
One minister, two jobs and the family that's at the top of the list. The number of bivocational ministers, those in full- or part-time ministry who carry an additional job, is estimated by some researchers to be as high as 30 percent of ministers nationwide.
"You should see the church they attend," Lucille said, armed with bulletin and newsletter. Creases formed across my brow as celebration gave way to comparisons a trap that had sprung too many times.