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Winter 2009


Church Library Resource
To request a complimentary copy of the following resource for your church or personal library, please call African-American Outreach in our Pastoral Ministries department at (719) 531-3360.


Pastor to Pastor:
"Dysfunctional Marriage"
David Gudgel, Ted & Linda Pampeyan, Juli Slattery and Joann Condi
with host H.B. London

We live in a time when it seems that most marriages are, at some point, dysfunctional in nature. Such times can bring any marriage to the breaking point. When dysfunctionality is not just a passing thing, however, these marriages will need some serious counseling and concentrated effort by both spouses to make it through. Too often, the couple just gives up and becomes another statistic in the divorce surveys.

But what does God have to say about this situation? How is a Christian to respond to such circumstances? And what if the marriage is that of a pastor and spouse?




Focus on the Family Magazine

For timeless biblical wisdom and proven practical family advice, our ministry's flagship magazine addresses the challenges and joys of everyday life, relationships, parenting, marriage and faith. To receive the complimentary Focus on the Family magazine call 1-800-A-FAMILY.





Our vision is to impact and influence the African-American family with the Gospel of Jesus Christ, specifically reaching out to the African-American pastor, the church and the community with more intentional efforts.

e-mail: pastors@family.org    phone: 719-531-3360
web: www.parsonage.org/aa

Foundations and Dreams:
Dr. Carter G. Woodson

In 1926, Carter Godwin Woodson, a Harvard Ph.D. graduate, founded Black History Week. He was born Dec. 19, 1875, in New Canton, Va. His parents were newly freed slaves, and Woodson was the oldest of nine children.

He worked in the local coal mines to help support his family. At age 17, he and his family moved to Fayette, Va. A young man of intense motivation, Woodson taught himself the basic fundamental school subjects.

At age 20, he was able to enter high school full-time and earned his diploma in less than two years. In 1907, he received a Bachelor of Science degree, and a Master's degree in 1908 from the University of Chicago.

After years of study, Dr. Woodson realized the contributions of Black Americans must be documented and taught. He believed "If a race had no recorded history, its achievement would be forgotten and, in time, claimed by other groups."

As a result, from 1926 through 1975, America celebrated Black History Week, which included Feb. 12 and 14. This week was chosen because Abraham Lincoln and the abolitionist Frederick Douglas were born on those days. During America's Bicentennial Celebration in 1976, Black History Week was expanded to include the entire month of February to provide more time for programs and observances.

It was not Woodson's goal to rewrite history through the designation that has now come to be known as Black History Month, but to explode the myth that Black Americans had no part to play in the framing of our nation's history.

Tips to Save Money — NOW!
by Kim Flynn

So you have cut back where you can? How else can you save? Prayer is working, but what else can you do to stretch your dollar? Here are a few ideas.

  • Rent movies from your local library for free
  • Combine discounts at the grocery store
    • Special offers like transferring prescriptions for rebates
    • Store frequent shopper discount cards
    • Gas incentives
    • Use coupons
  • Plan your shopping into one trip with a list. Stop! Don't make multiple trips to the store. Often, the more you spend in one trip, the more you save through discounted pricing offers (e.g., spend $50 and save $5).
  • Just-in-time. Based on the inventory adage of just-in-time delivery. If you are strapped, only buy what you need for the foreseeable future (i.e., two weeks or your current pay period).
  • At your limit? Call your creditor to get a fixed plan with a lower interest rate and request to stop over-the-credit-limit fees and late fees.
  • Running short? Call and ask for an extension on a payment. Request that a late fee be waived.

"We should not dim one bit the luster of any star in our firmament. Let no one be so thoughtless as to decry the record of the makers of the United States of America," said Woodson. "We should not learn less of George Washington — 'First in War, First in Peace, First in the Hearts of his Countrymen' — but we should learn something also of the three thousand Negro soldiers of the American Revolution who helped to make this 'Father of the Country' possible.

"We should not cease to pay tribute to Abraham Lincoln as the 'Savior of the Country,' but we should ascribe praise also to the 178,975 Negroes who had to be mustered into the service of the Union before it could be preserved and who, by their heroism, demonstrated that they were entitled to freedom and citizenship."

Alex Person
Manager
Pastoral Ministries
Focus on the Family



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